昨天,不知怎的……心情低落到了极点。
我想,近来我给自己太大的压力了。
工作上、课业上……,以致影响了我的爱情。
当然,无可否认,昨天争执还是有个有理由的的源头——
那就是,我们都试图把对方变成自己想要的模样。
yc says:
we can quarrel, but just dont say dun want to be together anymore..
k?
wl says:
sorry...
ok.i'm too emotional
i think i too pressure on myself...my EQ not good
每个人都不是完美的。我们常常忘记这一点。 尤其是我。
对不起。让你担心了。
谢谢你。愿意任我耍脾气,还用心哄我开心。
谢谢你……
Friday, June 12, 2009
Thursday, June 11, 2009
又一次的争执
yc says:
darling..
please forgive me la..
wl says:
i dont knw whether i should forgive or not
sometimes,i really feel we r so different....
maybe u think it's a small thing...
yc says:
u just look at the negative part..
y cant u think of the positive one?
Y cant u think of the happiness we being together?
Y cant u think of what i've done for u?
Is it not worthwhile?
wl says:
i appreciate the days we spent together
yc says:
Then, what is the problem?
Isnt it good enuf reason for us to be together?
wl says:
but....somehow....
i dont knw how to express my feeling
yc says:
we can compromise each other ma, my dear..
what is the use of being together when u cant even compromise each other?
Relationship is not as easy as u think..
There will always be times when we r not happy with each other..
We just need to tolerate..
Even with family members, u'll sometimes hv quarrel, rite?
因为这一句---“Even with family members, u'll sometimes hv quarrel, rite?”,
我想,我还是选择原谅他。
可是原谅了这一次,下一次呢?
他一直觉得我在为小事发脾气。
但,我很清楚,我不是。
我只是提出我们的相处之道有问题,我也很希望和他一起解决。
星星之火,可以燎原。小事不处理,之后就会变成大事。
难道要像雪球那样吗?越滚越大,之后一发不可收拾?
我们在一起快要十个月了。
我们却好像一直还是处于你不懂我,我也不懂你的情况。
因为不懂对方,才总是误解对方。
这不是第一次了。
我们总是因为不懂如何满足对方需要,而起争执。他,注意到了吗?
是因为我们越来越想成为对方最亲的人,
所以当我们发现对方不懂自己时,
就算只是小小的误解时,就特别难过吗?
还是,因为彼此的性格相差实在太远了?
磨合的地方太多,而特别难过?
很想珍惜他,不舍得放弃他……
可是,怎样呢?现在不舍得,以后呢?不敢说这样下去不会疲倦……
今天,第一次,觉得爱情是件多么累人的一件事。
darling..
please forgive me la..
wl says:
i dont knw whether i should forgive or not
sometimes,i really feel we r so different....
maybe u think it's a small thing...
yc says:
u just look at the negative part..
y cant u think of the positive one?
Y cant u think of the happiness we being together?
Y cant u think of what i've done for u?
Is it not worthwhile?
wl says:
i appreciate the days we spent together
yc says:
Then, what is the problem?
Isnt it good enuf reason for us to be together?
wl says:
but....somehow....
i dont knw how to express my feeling
yc says:
we can compromise each other ma, my dear..
what is the use of being together when u cant even compromise each other?
Relationship is not as easy as u think..
There will always be times when we r not happy with each other..
We just need to tolerate..
Even with family members, u'll sometimes hv quarrel, rite?
因为这一句---“Even with family members, u'll sometimes hv quarrel, rite?”,
我想,我还是选择原谅他。
可是原谅了这一次,下一次呢?
他一直觉得我在为小事发脾气。
但,我很清楚,我不是。
我只是提出我们的相处之道有问题,我也很希望和他一起解决。
星星之火,可以燎原。小事不处理,之后就会变成大事。
难道要像雪球那样吗?越滚越大,之后一发不可收拾?
我们在一起快要十个月了。
我们却好像一直还是处于你不懂我,我也不懂你的情况。
因为不懂对方,才总是误解对方。
这不是第一次了。
我们总是因为不懂如何满足对方需要,而起争执。他,注意到了吗?
是因为我们越来越想成为对方最亲的人,
所以当我们发现对方不懂自己时,
就算只是小小的误解时,就特别难过吗?
还是,因为彼此的性格相差实在太远了?
磨合的地方太多,而特别难过?
很想珍惜他,不舍得放弃他……
可是,怎样呢?现在不舍得,以后呢?不敢说这样下去不会疲倦……
今天,第一次,觉得爱情是件多么累人的一件事。
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